Navigating Safe Sex in Senior Relationships
Amy, a 62-year-old Texan, knows the importance of safe sex, especially as she navigates the dating scene post-divorce. Despite being in a “friends with benefits” situation, she prioritizes open conversations about sexual health with her partner and insists on proof of negative testing before intimacy, alongside condom use.
Lack of Awareness and Uncomfortable Conversations
Joan Price, a senior sexuality educator, highlights the various reasons why older adults may not prioritize safe sex. Some believe they’re beyond the risk of STIs, while others struggle with discussing protection due to concerns about their sexual prowess or societal perceptions.
Understanding the Trend
The rise in STIs among older adults reflects increased longevity and continued sexual activity. Dr. Shannon Dowler points out advancements in sexual health treatments, enabling longer, healthier sex lives for seniors. However, routine healthcare often neglects sexual health discussions and screenings, contributing to the issue.
Addressing Healthcare Gaps
Dr. Mariah Robertson emphasizes the need for healthcare providers to initiate discussions about sexual health with older patients routinely. Despite this, patients like Amy often have to advocate for themselves to ensure proper testing and understanding of their sexual health needs.
Empowering Conversations
Experts stress the importance of direct, non-judgmental communication about safe sex practices with partners. From discussing condom use to getting tested before intimacy, open dialogue is crucial for maintaining sexual health and well-being.
Confidence in Communication
Amy’s experiences underscore the necessity of confidence in discussing sexual health with partners. While pushback may occur, assertiveness and self-assurance are key in prioritizing personal safety and well-being.
